Money management isn’t always easy, especially since we constantly feel the pull of instant gratification. But our spending habits and consumerism is actually a bit sadder than this. As economist...
If you’re reading the title of this article and rolling your eyes, believe me, I get it. Nowadays it feels as if masculinity—hypermasculinity or otherwise—has become the source of all-evil in the...
Spring is finally upon us, and if you’re in a location that’s starting to get warm and pleasant, you probably want to go outside and enjoy it. If you’re in a location like I am, you want to stay...
Emotional conversations suck. There’s really no way around that. I’ve never met someone– male, female, or anywhere in between– who legitimately enjoyed having the kind of conversations that...

Budget Like a Man

Lifestyle - May 11, 2018

Living With the Land or Conquering It: Hypermasculinity's Ecological Effects

Lifestyle - Apr 30, 2018

5 Books About the Outdoors for Guys Who Don’t Actually Want to Go Outside

Lifestyle - Apr 4, 2018

Why Guys Struggle with Hard Conversations

Lifestyle - Mar 23, 2018

Budget Like a Man

Lifestyle - May 11, 2018
Money management isn’t always easy, especially since we constantly feel the pull of instant gratification. But our spending habits and consumerism is actually a bit sadder than...

Living With the Land or Conquering It: Hypermasculinity's Ecological Effects

Lifestyle - Apr 30, 2018
If you’re reading the title of this article and rolling your eyes, believe me, I get it. Nowadays it feels as if masculinity—hypermasculinity or otherwise—has become the source...

5 Books About the Outdoors for Guys Who Don’t Actually Want to Go Outside

Lifestyle - Apr 4, 2018
Spring is finally upon us, and if you’re in a location that’s starting to get warm and pleasant, you probably want to go outside and enjoy it. If you’re in a location like I...

Why Guys Struggle with Hard Conversations

Lifestyle - Mar 23, 2018
Emotional conversations suck. There’s really no way around that. I’ve never met someone– male, female, or anywhere in between– who legitimately enjoyed having the kind of...
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Lifestyle - Mar 5, 2018

Discrimination in the (Digital) Gay Community

Have you been on a gay social / dating app recently? If so you might have noticed profiles that read “No...
4 min read
Lifestyle - Feb 28, 2018

How to Not Be A Shitty Coworker

When deciding to take on a new role, the people you work with are often just as important as the job itself
4 min read
Lifestyle - Feb 23, 2018

What is Toxic Masculinity and Why Should Guys Talk About It?

Alright guys, it’s time to get real.
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Lifestyle - Feb 16, 2018

Dealing with S.A.D.

 Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) is a form of depression ‘comes and goes in a seasonal pattern’, as...
4 min read
Lifestyle - Feb 14, 2018

The BlakeWrites Go-Bag for Dates Gone Wrong

We’ve all had bad dates, bad sex, been rejected, or some catastrophic combination of the three. Somehow,...
4 min read
Lifestyle - Jan 19, 2018

Who's My Battle Buddy?

One of the first things you learn at BCT (Basic Combat Training) in the Army is that everyone has a battle...
3 min read
Lifestyle - Jan 12, 2018

Not Your Apu: Being Caught Between Cultures

The Balancing Act of Being Indian in England Growing up between cultures is hard. Finding the balance...
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redefining masculinity - Jan 10, 2018

The Decline of Macho Masculinity (And why that's a good thing)

Being ‘macho’ has long been part and parcel of what it means to be a man in modern society. This masculine...
7 min read
Lifestyle - Jan 6, 2018

Defying Gender norms... one dress at a time

In his upcoming book, Fragile Masculinity, photographer Matthew Dean Stewart calls the nature of gender...
4 min read
Lifestyle - Jan 1, 2018

The Mask of Masc Gay Culture

For a community that prides itself on diversity, gay men have had a longstanding issue with placing those...

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